Tuesday, 8 March 2016


There are three certainties in life, you are born, you live and die. End story. But what if life is described as thus and changes the whole scenario of the story. 
Life is like rainbow ................. see its colors
Life is like flower   ................... smell its fragrance
Life is like honey   .................... taste its sweetness
Life is like gentle breeze ............feel its touch
Life is like melodious music ...... hear its tune
Life is like a garden......
Sow the garden of your life with friendship of lovely plants, water it with cheering thoughts of togetherness, wee out hatred malice in grained deep down in you, prune your personality with social and moral norms, nourish the garden of life with fertilizers of happiness and love, tend well thoughts sunny hours to reap a fruitful harvest. Life in its full bloom is life a radiant flower with sweet fragrance. Life is lived once and it is very precious. 

Sunday, 7 February 2016

Kolkata I miss you and My adorable stay in various parts of West Bengal

Remembering and re-experiencing my good old times in Kolkata
An unforgettable phase of journey!

Enjoying the Blessed  showers at  Bandel Church 

Howrah of Howrah on Hooghly
This is how we dine every day!

Street children  you find everywhere 

Even in this high speed modern world Hand - pulled rickshaws are still available

Chota Bhim taking over hand -pulled rickshaws

My co-sisters... We lived together for couple of years!

My sacred places 

I watered this garden until the day I moved out!

Hooghly river dashing  into Bay of Bengal behind me
The place where I knelt down and prayed every day!

On the way to Kolkata!

My brother, counselor and well-wisher! 

A memorable ride into the greenness and into the beach  of  Narsapur

world s famous mangoes (Banginipalli) 

Friends and Families

HYSEA Summit '2015

Me, the wonder girl at  HYSEA Summit 2015 in Novotel                                                           

Monday, 30 November 2015

Mixed Feelings

 Today I am with mixed feelings,
Joy in meeting and knowing people during the phases of my life and at the same time it's so sad while leaving people whom I get acquainted parting from one and other either by transfer, shifting homes,moving places for betterment's, etc. Most of the time, all that go along with us is just the sweet memories of the past which would be history very soon; But as for me, it would mean a million's of bundles of memory in my life.
yes..... Today I cried.......
My throat choke......
No words...... No expressions.......
My eyes became wet with tears......
Rolling down my cheeks, pearls dropping down on to the ground......
Heart was full of pain and satisfaction and gratitude .......
I met the person who made my life so beautiful ....... and so miserable in thoughts....

There is a saying: "God cannot be everywhere therefore he made mothers".
In the same way God provides us with good people around in our day- to-day life to experience His love and care to every human being..... In my life, I'll always remain grateful to God for providing the person whom I can never ever forget.....
For the way he has engulfed my very being with characters filled with LOVE, AFFECTION, HATE REDNESS, SADISM, BITTERNESS  and so on which made me an wholesome of a person of me within me.... vehemently speaking in all off my moods his presence was part of me, engrossed. Perhaps, I should say, HE IS ONE IN TWENTY THOUSAND. Other than him I haven't met any other person in my life multiple and typical characteristics having patience, broad mindedness and at the same time very understanding. I guess here after my life is going to be a puzzle, for I'M hopping in to new era. I'm not afraid to face this part of life by God's grace, and for the motivation by the person who encouraged me to be self confident in all manner of life and that, I believe, would help me to solve new era's puzzle quite easily.

I cried..... the thought of leaving and missing him disturbed me a lot ..... Every beginning has an end....! Perhaps! One fine day I'll have to leave my past, place, people and the person who is so dear to me and head towards new beginning's, to another stage of life; It's so painful! Eyes are week but the thoughts are strong......
At the end of the day, The truth is that, we are all passengers traveling the train of life, board the train at our stations and get off the train at our destinations; meanwhile, we come across co-passengers with different intentions, categories and different morals-we get to know them for a particular time and we tend to leave behind the past, as the time flows as a stream towards us while we are heading forward. This is the reality of life.......!
"A person who brings tears of gratitude is very valuable"
That person stood by me in every difficult situation of my life I am very grateful to God for gifting me such a wonderful person.
My heart aches with gratitude ....
In words, cannot express my feelings ...
Tears..... Tears.... and only tears ....
In life we meet very few people.
They are most precious!

This person's experience in life taught me many lessons; One among them is to be a genuine and practical person.

Image source: emilysquotes.com

Monday, 1 June 2015

A Hobby can enhance our well-being

Not all of the humankind is gifted with the entire talents, clubbed together; they vary from one to another. From the childhood, parents like the children to be educated to the extremes but eventually most of the parents find their children unable to cope up with the education system but finds them participating in various activities such as involving themselves in sports, drawing/ painting, singing, playing instruments mechanical fields, photography, gardening, water sports and acting in movies etc... These are some inborn talents that pop up during the stream of education which need to be polished and nourished and most of all; they need the right encouragement to develop those hobbies into real skills.
A hobby is an activity you enjoy doing. It is something you do out of your own choice, something unique to your taste and talent. A hobby can enhance our well-being and can give meaning to our life. Just as physical exercise is important for the body, relaxing the mind is also essential. We need a balance in life. Work life can be quiet hectic and everybody needs some sort of activity to relieve their stress. 

Hobby is not inborn inclination. It is developed through a constant effort. Hobbies play an important role in developing one's personality.People tend to become very mechanical if he or she does their routine work throw out the day so every person should have a hobby to keep himself active physically as well as mentally. Hobbies will enhance self-esteem and confidence. Most of the people depend upon external sources of pleasure and entertainment like: watching serials, movies, entertaining in gossiping and friends, but a hobby is something we do with an urge from within. We cannot always look on to others for relaxing or spending our free time. We should spend our precious time in doing something creative that would be beneficial for individual as well as the society around us.
                                                                                    Benefits of having hobbies:
  • Stress relief
  • Boosts self-esteem
  • Hobbies have physical health benefits
  • Hobbies make you happier
  • Hobbies helps in gaining knowledge 
  • Hobbies are great way to make new friends and improve social skills
  • Fun
  • You will learn new things
  • Potential to make extra money

A list of some hobbies for adopting
  • Singing
  • Gardening
  • Sports 
  • Yoga 
  • Collecting stamps
  • Skating
  • Cooking
  • Photography 
  • Reading 
  • Blogging
  • Playing instruments
  • Knitting
  • Drawing
Getting in to physical activities promotes good health and having hobby allows you to acquire new skills and discover hidden talents. Cultivating hobbies will eventually lead you to meeting new people and you will find new friends while implanting your hobbies. There are numerous hobbies, choose one and whatever activity you choose, it will surely result to your advantage. Even if you do not have a hobby, do make the effort to develop one, it will improve your quality of life.

Source:  http://thinklink.in/why-is-it-important-to-have-a-hobby/

Wednesday, 22 April 2015

My home was a hell for me

Raju  left home after his class 10th  public examination wanting to find a healthier environment for his future studies. He joined a college and got a place in a hostel, however he found it hard to concentrate on his studies.  His plans did not materialize as he thought that a change from home would settle matters.  He could not focus on his study and found it hard to have close friends. Often he would spend free time alone, trying to fill up the time with anything that comes handy. He knew that he could not continue in this manner.
Raju tried to make himself calmer and less anxious about his problems.  He thought he would get the help of his hostel warden.  He tried to approach him but something held him back.  He made many attempts over the year to reach the office of his warden and seek some help. Every time he made the effort some unknown power kept him back.  Finally, plucking up courage one day he got himself to the office of the warden.  He started with something but could not continue.  He said: “I would like to tell you something, but I am not able to”.  The warden told Raju that he could write and bring to him what he struggles to bring out and he did that very willingly.  Raju had a one liner: “I was sexually abused by my grand father when I was in class three”. He put his head down unable to utter a word. It took the skill and patience of the warden, a professional counselor, to help Raju to enter into his personal story which he kept hidden for years.

That was the beginning of a long journey to recovery from sexual abuse in childhood.  In fact over the months that followed Raju broke down number of times as he narrated bit by bit the story of his nightmare in his maternal grandfather’s house.  He never wanted to step into that house, however his mother would force him to go with him. He remained a victim of such a terrible experience till he left home. His home was hell for him. It took more than a year of regular therapy and counselling that brought Raju back to a normal and psychologically healthy life.  Sheer determination and the willingness to work through the pain of abuse gave  new life to Raju. Today he is a happy and healthy young man completing his graduation.